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And just like that, she’s seven.

I’ve now had exactly seven birthdays to be ready and prepared for Jane’s big day. Seven times to remember that a birthday that comes 4 days after Christmas takes a little extra planning! Well, I never learn. I was still dashing out the night before for wrapping paper and my annual run to Claire’s for birthday bling. STILL. She bounded down the stairs as a 7 year old, ready for our traditional birthday breakfast. And of course, dancing.

Here’s how it works in this house. No matter the special occasion, kids wait on the steps until mom gets her camera ready. Sometimes they can talk dad into sitting too…

When I was a kid, my parents would put their Tom T Hall record on before we were awake, and blast the song “Your Birthday Is”. We carry on the tradition to this day, and I get a little spin around the kitchen with my babies a couple times a year!

Our plan was to go to the American Girl store for a birthday lunch with her friends and cousins, but a snowstorm on the way had us make a quick change of plans. The four of us headed to Launch, a trampoline park in Warwick. WHICH WAS AWESOME.

Bouncing with the birthday girl! from Sarah Kristiansen on Vimeo.

It took some persuading (read: “you ARE having your birthday photos taken, so put your hat on and GET OUTSIDE!”) but Jane finally got herself outside! The snow was just starting and she picked her new kitty hat to wear for the photos. I love seeing how she changes from year to year…and my heart aches a little and swells at the same time…

As the snow started to fall in earnest, we made some cupcakes that looked like snowballs!   Added in some special candles from Grams and we got to the business of singing happy birthday to our girl. Who loved it. As you can see.

She then pronounced that since it was HER birthday, she decided that we were eating CUPCAKES for dinner. Which is exactly what we did!

Baby Jane, you continue to amaze us with your smarts, your sense of humor. We cherish each little love note you leave for us, each new song that you write. You are flighty and social, and you are loved by all who meet you. Happy birthday to the girl who lights up our lives! We love you so much, sweet child!

Sometimes there are weddings that come and go, and I look back and wonder how I could have spent the previous 12 hours working, when all I recall is having FUN. The kind of wedding where my face hurts from all the smiling. The kind of day that is completely rained out, but it doesn’t dampen any of the sunny spirits inside. That’s the day that Katie, Corey, and I had.

The early party of the day was nothing short of hysterical. I can’t tell you how many times that I said through my laughter “Well, that’s the first time I’ve ever heard THAT at a wedding!!” Katie’s mom was SO funny that I’d like to have her come along to all of my future weddings for the entertainment that she provides. Katie’s whole family is awesome. We realized early on that her veil was missing. The veil that she borrowed from her cousin (who was there doing all the girls’ makeup) was mysteriously and most certainly NOT in the bag with her gown.  The wedding was on a Sunday, so of course the bridal salon was closed…but Katie’s younger brother and sister totally earned the MVP awards for tracking down the bridal salon owner on Facebook, messaging and calling information, and the veil arrived just in time! Love that!

Their wedding was at the amazing Wequasset Inn in Chatham. The grounds are so gorgeous and we didn’t get to see any of them. The rain kept us on the porch for photos, and as I was sorting through them, I couldn’t help notice how much fun everyone is having!  That’s really such an amazing thing–I have so much respect for couples who take the rainy day in stride and don’t let it ruin the magic of their day. Plus, I think I am pretty hysterical. So that helps. They also opted for a first look…we got to meet up on the porch and look out at the rain while Katie and Corey snuggled and smooched. Have I mentioned how much I love first looks? World, wait until you see the pics. These two are crazy in love.

The dance floor was packed with people from start to finish…the party was ROCKING. Remember how I said I felt like I was partying all night??  And Katie’s niece Margaret was SO much fun….I absolutely loved both of these families. Donahues, Askews, let’s do it again soon, shall we?  xo

Nothing like a little pre-wedding patty cake!

See what I mean? It was hysterical in there with these ladies!!

Gorgeous, Katie. GORGEOUS.

Walking up to her groom for the first look….I LOVE THIS MOMENT!

So awesome!!! One of my favorites!!

Rain? What rain? How could anyone notice with all the fun we are having?

favorite favorite FAVORITE.

Silliness = awesome.

ok, maybe we were sad about the rain for ONE second.

Meet Mags- world champion flower girl!!

Another favorite!

BAAAAA-LING.

Melissa, my second shooter, may have caught the candid of the night!!

Katie and Corey, I LOVED our day together. I feel like we were in the planning for so long, it was amazing to finally be there at the big day! I hope you loved your sneak peek, your gallery is coming shortly!! And world, leave them a little love in the comments!

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One last little behind the scenes…just a little photographic proof of how funny I CLEARLY am.

“Today, I am the luckiest man on the face of the earth”

The famous line spoken by Lou Gherig, as he said goodbye to baseball, having been diagnosed with ALS.

And man, I’d like to walk up to him and punch him square in the face.

You see, my dear friend Charlie was diagnosed with ALS in February of last year, my friend Charlie, one of the good guys, with a lovely wife and two small boys. Lucky wasn’t the word that I would have chosen. The words I WOULD choose are not fit for this blog.

One word I would pick would be helpless.  With the diagnosis of ALS, there is very little to do. No treatment protocol to slow the progress of the disease, just standby and wait, and angrily wonder why this fate befell such a man.  Personally, I am fortunate–as a photographer, I had a skill that helped me be immediately helpful, as we planned a whole bunch of photo shoots while Charlie was feeling good. Helpful! I like that! We took a trip to Washington DC a few months later, and already we could see ALS starting to take its toll on our friend.

Many more outings and get-togethers with the Guenards have filled our calendar, Sam and Jane love being with Chauncey and Landry, and TK and I love being with Charlie and Winnie. Each time we are all together I take a mental photograph and store it away–because I know I’m going to need to remember these days. Again, Lou, I’m feeling lots of things, but luckiest isn’t it.

Charlie spends his days now in a spaceship-like wheelchair–it’s got a zillion buttons and I think Charlie is finding it easier to get around his house with it. But herein lies the problem.  His house is NOT set up for a chair like this, and getting OUT of the house is a major struggle. What my friend needs is a handicap-accessible van, so that he can get out and spend some time at his favorite places–Bliss Ice Cream, Chapin Beach, the movie theater. He needs a new set of wheels, and his friends and family are set on helping him get them.

We are embarking on a series of fundraisers to help raise the money for the van–about $40,000. This Saturday we are going bowling! Come to Town Line Luxury Lanes in Malden from 12-4, get your bowling shoes on and have some fun with us! Here is a link to the Facebook event, but don’t feel like you can’t help if you can’t come on Saturday, here’s a link to where you can donate to the Champions for Charlie fund–or just drop me a note and I’ll hook you right up.

I know that many of you reading this don’t know Charlie. But I do. This man has integrity and character–not like people say in passing–it is how he lives his life. He is funny and sarcastic, and the love he has for his friends, family, and his rascal boys is fierce. His laughter is infectious, and his moral compass points true north. I thank my lucky stars that TK and Charlie became friends when they were little…because Charlie has a place in my heart that belonged to him from the moment I met him. So OK, Lou Gherig. I get it. Maybe I am indeed one of the luckiest people on the face of the earth…because I get to call Charlie my friend.

Please donate. Your generosity is greatly appreciated…and stay tuned for more fun events in the near future…and maybe I’ll see you on the lanes on Saturday!

Matt and Josh came to me through a referral from a fellow photographer. Those are such cool circumstances, when a friend and colleague thinks highly enough of you to refer you to their friends! (thanks again, Laurie!)

Convincing Matt and Josh to have an engagement session took a little work. They weren’t all that excited about the prospect of having their photos taken, but that makes them PERFECT candidates! When you are uncomfortable in front of the camera, an engagement session is the perfect way to get used to it! I sent them the engagement get-to-know-you questionnaire, and learned lots and lots about them, and we made plans to take their dog, Sam, to the park, and then go back to their house and cook. Yes. I have figured out a way to get incredible meals out of my engagement sessions….

Matt and Josh, thanks for trusting me to take these photos for you! I am so happy that Laurie passed my name along, because you guys are AWESOME.  And I’m totally crossing my fingers that I am invited to a dinner party in the not too distant future!!

I am super excited to show you their wedding photos also…those will be here on the blog in no time! Until then, enjoy these!

I’m telling you, Sam here loved having his photo taken…

favorite!

That’s where the photos stopped because, well, I can’t eat and shoot at the same time, and looking at that spread, can you blame me?

World, I hope you liked meeting Matt and Josh, now leave them some love in the comments!